My favourite question to be asked is: can you recommend a good podcast or a book? As we have done a few books already, today I would really like to share a couple of podcast recommendations. As variety is the spice of life, here comes la spécialité de la maison – an assortment of tastes and flavours. With a long Easter weekend ahead, the kind that practically begs for bigger thoughts than your to-do list, today I'm setting a menu. Three courses, one theme: what lies beyond the self, how to find your bearings and how to recognise what lies ahead…
Jane Goodall: The Legend, The Lessons, The Hope The Tim Ferriss Show, #421
We start here because today would have been Jane Goodall's birthday. She left us in October 2025, at 91, having spent her final decades traveling the world on one message: the greatest danger to our future is apathy. Combined with my favourite quote that our greatest sin is couwardice from “Master and Margarita” of Michail Bulgakov, this serves as a good territory perimerter. In this conversation with Tim Ferriss, she speaks with characteristic precision about hope – not as sentiment, but as a practice you maintain even when the evidence doesn't cooperate. She also speaks, quietly and without drama, about something harder to name: her mother's uncanny intuition capable to create a powerful vision of a scientist-to-be in the world where such a development was hardly fathomable. Jane Goodall speaks also of her own experience of her late husband's presence after his death, and her view of dying as the next great adventure – because either there's nothing, which is fine, or there's something, and what a thing to find out. For someone whose entire career was built on observation and evidence, her openness to what lies beyond both is striking. And instructive – not to mention very much called for around Easter.
The Four Stages of Life Mark Manson
From transcendence to the very earthly question of where, exactly, you are on the map. To be more precise – on YOUR map. Mark Manson introduces four stages - mimicry, self-discovery, commitment, legacy. The stages are deceptively simple, yet I found them tremendously resonating as I could definitely relate and recognise a lot of growth and change moments of my dear ones along those phases. Yet the real point is what happens when you get stuck: running someone else's life in Stage One and wondering whether you are doing it right (or why does it start feeling weird otherwise?), becoming addicted to novelty in Stage Two, or mistaking arrival for aliveness in Stage Three. More of the same doesn't add up to more life – enough is enough and more will not solve it. You need different. The uncomfortable question the essay leaves you with: which stage are you actually in – and which one are you telling yourself you're in?
David Whyte, Poet – Spacious Ease, Irish Koans, Writing in Delirium The Tim Ferriss Show, #781
And here is where the arch closes. David Whyte – poet, former marine zoologist, man who turned to language because science wasn't precise enough for what he'd experienced – speaks about what it means to stay genuinely present to life. To your own life. Good poetry, he argues, helps you notice when you're impersonating yourself instead of being yourself. Your future self is already casting shadows into your present one: they arrive as restlessness, as the conversation that suddenly loses its current, as the life that fits less well than it used to. The question is whether you're paying attention as it is your responsibility to keep catching up with yourself. “All of us spend so much time trying to find a path where we won’t have our heart broken. And really, the only way you can find a path where your heart won’t break is by not caring,” – David Whyte answers beautifully to the anti-apathy manifesto of Jane Goodall.
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